BEYOND LOVE BY THE MAN OF STEEL....
Longest of
times! with love, time and passion placed in the right order I have cooked a delicious kind of a topic to quench your taste for hunger. It’s about
love that could last now and beyond. An advice that could help each and everyone
of us to find that one love that lasts forever, if well taken. Without a waste
of time it goes this way.
Beyond love
Did you know? I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee
the success of a relationship. Love cannot help
you stick to one person all year round, and on
the other hand, cheating isn't always a product
of not loving your partner.
In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not
falling in love with someone else. Relationships
work out mostly because of our heads not our
hearts.
It works out because of our emotional maturity,
empathetic intelligence and self discipline;
because, time will come when you'll see more
beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy,
rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one
you're in a relationship with.
In those times, love will not help you. Self
control will help you. Emotional intelligence will
come to your rescue and commitment will keep
you going.
With those characteristics, no matter how you
feel for someone else, the person you're
committed to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't see
better people than the ones they married to?
You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You
think they don't catch feelings? They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater
than feelings and it is the great arsenal that
destroys those unhelpful impulses.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a
relationship takes absolutely more than what
attracted you to them and takes more than love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient
and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love
is there; but that can only last for just the first 3
- 6 months of the relationship in many cases.
After then, you'll realize that the feelings have
dropped and it's now your responsibility to
make the relationship work, not love's
responsibility.
Relationships cannot be ready made. You have to
build it and it's never always about love, it
requires commitment and intelligence.
On the long run in marriages, it's not just love
that keeps them together forever, it's
determination and commitment.
Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort
to do that. But staying in love? Building a
relationship? Only the strong and committed
ones do that.
That's why we must find that one person and
commit to that one, discipline yourself and
bridle your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.
It's always tough. At some point it will be so
bitter but you can make it work by putting your
heads together. You can scale through the trying
times by staying focused and committed.
The kind of love that attracts two people
together is not the kind of love that will keep
them together. Be emotionally strong, be self
disciplined and above all, have the God factor
that will give you the grace needed to reign you
in.
Please imbibe and share with the young adults,
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